Over Possessiveness is Bad

I always thought that Possessiveness in Love is good(as heard from many girls, also from one who was very close to my heart), but today after her words, I really believe that its just a piece of shit, it's just the other form of axing your own love. When you love someone very deeply, you get obsessed with everything, you just think that she has become a part of yours life but no, you are wrong. i could bet here that no girl could become anyone's life. if you are doing so, you are a fool or being made fool in the name of Love which you considered the truest form of your life.

Today, I really feel that "Obsession is feeling fearful that you may be losing her; detachment is knowing that she may be losing you, and apathy is the past tense of both". One thing, which is very true in Love that when we start our relationship, we enter as somebody, but when we leave, it's nobody. I think, in my case it would be, everybody, except me.

Hope to get everything well in my life...........I can't tolerate one more, Please Help...........